Learn the best tricks which you can use to find someone on tinder. These
tips can be used by both men and women to get the perfect match on Tinder app .
Oh! Yes, Tinder men’s best friend and women’s ego booster. Whenever a
man want to hook up with a woman he can definitely rely on tinder to help him
meet women and whenever a woman is down or feeling off, all those matches on
tinder helps you up by an ego boost. But therein lays the dilemma, if you
really want a best friend you have to work on it and the same goes for tinder.
If you really want to find someone on Tinder to hook up with, or go on a
date with or well find that special someone to spend the rest of your life with
you can use tinder as the ways to your means. In order to successfully find
someone or just increase the chances of that on tinder you have to put in some
effort and to show you the right way or some tips and tricks to maximize your
potential here is an article dedicated to get the best matches and all the
right swipes in your favor.
Now to get a positive review and by that I mean the right swipes from
the opposite sex tinder offers you some chances which you can take it as a test
and if you pass the test then you get the thing that you desire the most. Let
me just list out the test for you and then we’ll go through how to get pass or
around them in order to succeed.
FIRST STEP: INTRIGUING
“First impression is the last impression” if this quote works for any
place perfectly than it is on tinder because in this app if the person do not
like your first picture they are just going to left swipe and go for someone
else, it’s not soul searching it’s a dating app. If the first image did not
make the impact then no one is going to look for your second picture or your
bio for that matter. We are human’s we like what we see and if we don’t than we
don’t want to watch any more of it even though you have a great personality,
you are not getting the right swipe, no offense. If you want to find someone on
Tinder then you have to intrigue the person’s interest by an intriguing first
picture and for that here are some things you might want to consider.
1. This picture should basically give the person the
general idea of how you look like with just enough intriguing factor that he or
she notices it and want to see more.
2. First I am going to tell you what not to keep as your
first picture which is a group pictures, quotes, film posters, celeb posters or
anything that makes the person looking at them a hard time to notice you. Like
say if you are in a group photo then how is she or he going to know who you
are? Hence you get left swipe and as for others, I think, its self explanatory
that they are not you.
3. Now for the perfect first picture you might like to
try and get your face and hair properly and possible with a nice smile. Now for
the intriguing factor you can include a pet dog or cat in the picture to get
the attention because both guys and girls love a cute pet. And if you don’t
have that cute pet then you can go for the mysterious look like looking away
from the camera but still your entire face and possibly your body till your
waist line is visible in the picture and try not to go for the selfie and even
if you do just don’t make it obvious.
4. First picture is suppose to be your first impression
so try and project yourself in an image in which you think you’ll get the
maximum matches and just relax because if you are not getting enough hits in
this one then you can always try something else till it works.
SECOND STEP: HOBBIES AND
INTERESTS
If he or she is watching your second picture then you have certainly got
their attention and now it’s time to drive it home, so to speak. In the second
picture you have to show them how adventurous you are and how fun it would be
to talk to you and the best way to do this is to picture of yourself in some
physical activity like trekking, rock climbing, nature, cycling, athletic photo
would work as well. It tells them how fit you are and how much fun it would be
if they are around you. Any photo that is not too gross like you picking up
some insect or anything which could come off as creepy is a no (left swipe).
And try to get your face and body properly visible in the picture just so it
wouldn’t be difficult for them to see you. If you want to find someone on
Tinder as a perfect match for you then make sure you correctly mention your
hobbies and interest.
THIRD STEP: SOCIAL STATURE
This picture is to tell them that you are a respectable person and that
you do have some social stature as it is said that “You are only as good as the
company you keep.” In this picture you can go for a group photo at an office or in
a restaurant or while on an adventure. It would be best if the people in the
picture appear to be having fun because it tells them that the company you keep
is happy and believe me everyone likes to be happy so it would be nice to have
you in their company, if you know what I mean. The best picture is when you all
friends have hands on each others shoulder or when you are gathered around
something and talking and having a blast.
FORTH STEP: FORMAL ATTIRE
Well till now we have
shown them that how much fun it would be if they get acquainted with you but
fun had to end sometime so in this picture we show that you are not only the
easy going adventurous person but also a responsible working individual. This picture
should be in a formal suit and if possible in your office or your company in
the background to show them that you are a responsible adult. In other words
this picture is to make them feel secure enough to talk to you and quite
possible to set up a meet. Now in this picture try appearing a professional
kind of guy like in your suit with your arms crossed and this can be your full
body image rocking that suit.
FIFTH STEP: HUMOR
For men who want to find
someone on Tinder, humor is very important. Now if an individual has reached
this photo then he/she has already made up their mind and all you have to do
now is make them smile about the way they are thinking because it’s quite
possible they might be blushing. This picture only needs to include your sense of
humor like you in front of table full food saying yum or anything that show
that you have a great sense of humor. Remember not to do anything racist and
don’t make weird faces because that’s just creepy. If you are not comfortable
with humor then you can put another cute picture or a picture of your hobbies
but a different hobby from the last one.
USE YOUR RIGHT PROFILE PICTURE
Till now I didn’t
mentioned anything about the half naked picture because for guys they are not
that attractive because it just says that you are not shy and for girls it may
say that you are a slut. This trick does work for some people. But guys if you
really want to show your body then it’s better to use the indirect approach
like wearing a half sleeves or sleeveless t-shirt and tighten your hand to show
your cuts or you can try swimming for your hobby or humor picture. And girls if
you want to show off those curves then you just have to act natural and give
them a nice pout face and a full picture with the curves shape visible and let
the guy’s imagination run wild because some things are best left for
imagination.
BRIEF BIOGRAPHY
Even though you felt
everything that you did till now was shallow I would just like to mention that
it’s not that shallow it’s just human nature and once it sees something
interesting it sticks with it. So, all you did till now was scratch the surface
and got their attention and made them feel interested, so now they will dig in
and that’s the reason you need a nice tagline which can tell something about you
or you can use two words sentences like “Fashion Entrepreneur, Love Blues, Dog
Person, Casual Anytime.” This tagline tells the other person all they need to
know. So you decide what you want from tinder and make it work for you. And
secondly it is more than okay to link your blogs or personal websites or other
social networks username so that they can know more about you and they have
more than one way to contact you.
EXTRA TIPS TO FIND SOMEONE ON TINDER
Going the extra mile is just another way of saying to take that extra
effort to make sure that you have done everything you could have. So, what more
you can do is you can broaden your horizon like say widen the area of search
for the matches and secondly you can be a little bit flexible regarding the age
as well. And
still if you want you can be more active on the social networking websites and
liking some pictures and tagging some friends into it. And lastly if you don’t
give right swipe enough you are not going to get any, it’s the basic rule or
let’s just say its like karma “What goes around, comes around”.
Everything you did to
increase your matches and to find someone is to tell something about yourself
but in a way that the world of tinder gets what you are trying to say. Like
from the first picture to the bio and even when you went the extra mile so just
know what is it that you really want to tell these people and then go for it.
And for clarity purpose let me just say what we have said in these pictures
“Hi, I am interesting, adventurous, fun to be around but responsible enough to
maintain myself and have a great sense of humor” Anything that is left out is
said in the bio and confirmed when you went the extra mile. If you do this the
number of right swipes will increase and if it doesn’t then try switching up
the pictures and even the sequence of them if needed.