Find the right tricks to talk dirty to a guy in bed or over text. These
tips and examples will help you understand how to talk dirty and turn a guy on.
Talking dirty is usually the best way to turn on a guy and make him want
you even more. Dirty talking can be the one thing that gives you the leg up
from all the other girls out there and that too in a way you have never
imagined because one thing that every guy wants in a girl is that how good and
pure she appears in public and how dirty and naughty she can be when she is
with him, as it kind of makes them feel special. So, if you want that guy to be
hooked on you then you can use these dirty talking techniques and tactics to do
so and here are some pointer you need to learn on how to talk dirty to a guy .
WHY DIRTY TALKING IS IMPORTANT ?
In order to use dirty
talking, you first need to understand why dirty talking is so important and so
here are some things you need to know about why dirty talking really works.
Firstly and most
importantly dirty talking is a way to keep your man wondering about you. You
see, dirty talking are not some direct quotes that works magically to turn your
man on but are indirect, vague and subtle quotes or tricks to make your man
wonder about what you really said and what you really meant because it is not
that clear which makes him think about you all the time which in turns makes him
want you even more.
Secondly, when you talk
dirty to a guy it arouses him. It’s like having sex before really having sex;
it’s a great to turn him on. So, naturally you can use it to make sexual
activity even hotter and more steamy than usual and so I urge you to really
consider using it to get a leg up in the dating pool.
And last but not least,
dirty talking builds up sexual tension between you and your guy and makes him
want to have sex even more than usual. You know sexual tension is most
essential if you want to prevent your relationship from becoming a bore and to
keep it more active and more intimate in every aspect, if you know what I mean.
TRICKS TO TALK DIRTY TO A GUY EFFECTIVELY
One of the biggest
misconceptions among people is that when you talk dirty it is the words or the
phrases that have all the power but that is not the fact instead it is how you
say the phrase is more important.
Let’s see an example,
suppose you turn to your man and you are stinking and then you blow your nose
or fart right in front of him and then say “I want you so bad, right now” then
what do you think he will say? Or how will he react? Would he be turn on or
just annoyed by you? Now we are going to say the same words but we are going to
change the way of saying it.
First wear a nice
lingerie or a nice top and skirt with a nice seductive fragrance and then when
your man is home then you go hold him from behind and let him feel your body
and then slowly whisper in his from behind “I want you so bad right now” and
then give him a lasting kiss on the cheeks and then lead the way to the bedroom
giving him and glancing smile and see what happens. So what do you think now,
we did say the same thing both times but the way of saying it was different and
hence it is not the words entirely but also the way you see it is important.
Just use this example to help further your dirty talk and build up the sexual
tension which will later result in great sex.
You see, just a bit of
physical contact and sultry seductive voice can change the entire game even
when you are in public just give him a light touch on his thigh under the table
while you are sitting across your friends, you know, the more secretive it is
the more he will want you but sometimes a guy is not in the mood and if he
frisk you off the first time rudely then just stop and after the fact ask him
about it.
WHEN AND WHERE TO TALK DIRTY ?
How you talk dirty also
depends on when and where you are going to talk because when you are in bed
together making love at that time talking dirty is all about blowing his brains
out but when you are talking after sex at that time it’s all about making him
feel good and secure by letting him know that he did good but before sex it’s
all about the build up for sex to make the before experience as good as the
during process. Here are some scenarios for you to consider:
Build
Up :
This part is all about
teasing your guy and building the pressure before making love and make him
wonder about making love till he can’t anymore. The best way to buildup sexual
tension is to give him something to look forward to and so you can use phrase like
“I can’t wait till we are alone. I have a surprise for you”, “If we were at
home right now, I would have made your night”, “Watching you right now is just
turning me on” and phrases like that which would work for your man. You see
buildup is the part where you leave your man hanging and give him something to
think about all day long and you can even do this over text which I will
explain in dirty texting part.
While
Making Love :
This section will teach
to talk dirty to a guy in bed. Dirty talking while making love includes two
things viz. moaning and complimenting. Moaning is the part which serves as the
root for dirty talking as this is where you get to know if your man likes it or
not because some assholes do say to “Shut up” during sex and to them “Screw
You” and for those who are interested in trying it would be best if you can get
closer to your lover ears and then moan using sounds like “Mmmhm”, “Ohhh”,
“Yes”, “Ahhh”. You know the normal voices that you do while having an orgasm
try screaming the combination of moans like “Ohh! Yes, right there” and “Yeah
baby” and the kind of things which would make him think that he is doing good.
And secondly, about the
complimenting, this is where you get to instruct him if he is not doing a great
job but in a way that doesn’t hurt his ego and get the job done at the same
time. This is not that hard to do because once you are moaning properly in his
ear and the occasional sigh will get him comfortable enough for you to tell him
the way you want it like try saying words like “Yes, right there”, “Keep doing
it”, “Don’t stop”, “Faster”, “Deeper” and lastly “I am going to cum” and then
you can repeat the moaning, the sigh and other words from this step till you
get what you need.
After
Affect :
After you have done it
and you are still in his arms you need to compliment him about his performance
and tell him how good you feel just being there right now. And so in the after
affect we use sentences like “It felt great doing it again, missed you this
whole week”, “I love it when you dominate me”, “I love it when you get on top
of me” and once these compliment train is over and if you want to cuddle or
something then you can try saying “I like how good it feel to just lay in your
arms afterwards” or use these kind of sentence including the word “afterwards”
just so he gets the message properly.
DIRTY TEXTING TO A GUY
Before the mobile phones
and texting and stuff it was hard to buildup sexual tension as it can only be
done when two people are face to face but in today’s technology it is quite
easier to buildup sexual tension via texting or shall we say it sexting. I mean
you could meet a stranger online and have so much sexual tension buildup that
when you meet all you want to do is the deed and in order to achieve that
successfully. Here are some tips to talk dirty to a guy over text.
1. Try
starting with something simple like “Wish you were here right now” and see
where he takes the conversation and then you can get into flirty and sexy
details.
2. Generally
a guy would ask “Why?” and then some flirty comment with a smiley face no
matter what the response it you tell him “Would have made your day” and a winky
emoticon.
3. After that you can take the conversation any where you
want and if you want him to get horny then go ahead and ask him “What is he
wearing right now” and when he replies send this “(whatever he is wearing) Mmmh
uhmm” with a tongue out emoticon.
4. And this step should only be followed if you are absolutely
sure about the guy, which is to send him dirty picture and always try not to
include your face and body in the same photo. Be careful about this and use
this only if necessary because you don’t need this you can turn him just by
using texts.
Now, I have told you all about dirty talking and now all you have to do
is figure out which way works for you the best for some it is cursing others
like role playing. Some people are also in BDSM but that is for another time and
for now try to see which way works for you and be overly cautious about dirty
texting because some people can take it the wrong way and remember to try your
dirty talking in front of the mirror before getting out there. So, thank you
and get your freak on.